thanks, but I dont think they went to the ER. I made it their decision where as if I was going to bring them or not. They didn't want to go because of the fact a small town and such an episode would sure go around. Career cautious? well, maybe they have other issues, but for now they're alive.

Well we can try and show them alternative ways to spend life other than a slow suicide. but do you think if they ultamately went to the hospital or family physician or counselor (past "issues are already known") - (because of small hick town rumor reasons) that will harm any more ( socially) than what already did (physically)?