infidelity

orchid · 01-01-08, 20:49

have you ever had an affair or been with someone who was married?

Hippie3 · 01-01-08, 20:51

not recently...unless i count my wife, she's married.

Fresh Brewed · 01-01-08, 20:54

Never come close to being unfaithful to my wife. Years and years ago I fooled around with a woman who was recently seperated.

Doctor D · 01-01-08, 21:07

Heh, reminds me of a joke about pre-marital sex my friend used to tell. If a girl told him that she was waiting until marriage to have sex, he would reply

"Well in that case... call me when you get married!"

djb · 01-01-08, 21:21

My mom fooled around on my step dad recently we had a grow room in there attic... He found out... (About the affair) went to the cops and turned us in...Fucker got my pot taken away and my fredom for a while..All good know back at the smokin not growin, Damn it!!!!! I miss my babys
had some real beutiful plants, my best was a Train Wreck...Anyways
so yeah thats my story n that subject....

orchid · 01-01-08, 23:21

wow... i've got a married man on my tail. its been on my mind, don't know why but when married men hit on you its kind of hot.

dizzydank · 01-01-08, 23:26

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Originally Posted by Hippie3

not recently...unless i count my wife, she's married.

lol. hmm never had a married guy hit on me.

Leary's Ghost · 01-02-08, 00:57

i didnt get married til i was 40. before i fell in love with my wife, i didnt think i could ever be faithful to one woman. i spent alot of years chasing anything i thought i could catch and traveled the world doing it. i would have made a lousy husband, really.

although it was a thrill, what i have now is way better. real love and commitment, dig? just yesterday, some hot little thing climbed onto the treadmill next to me at the gym. before i could get my 'pod buds in my ears, she strikes up a conversation with me and starts flirting. she smelled really good too. this never happens to me, so i go with it a while, really enjoying the attention. after a few minutes i put my buds in my ears, cranked the vol, and had a great run. best in a long time. point is, it never occured to me to do anything other than smile at her and appreciate her beauty (and sensuality) for what it is--a gift from God. i went home to my wife and told her i loved her. i didnt feel that i had "missed out" on anything, nor did i feel guilty. i just felt lucky to be alive and to exist in such a beautiful, miraculous universe.

attention from the opposite sex feels good (or same sex i guess if that's your thing). lying, cheating and manipulation are not so good IMHO.

i dont regret my past, but i am glad ive made it to where i am.

why do you ask anyway? wondering if you should have a roll with the married guy? i would only sugest that if you do, do so with your eyes open. if he would lie to his wife, he will lie to you too. so dont think its something its not.

thats what i think anyway.

peace

LG

djb · 01-02-08, 02:56

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Originally Posted by Leary's Ghost

if you should have a roll with the married guy? i would only sugest that if you do, do so with your eyes open. if he would lie to his wife, he will lie to you too. so dont think its something its not.

thats what i think anyway.

peace

LG

Agree strongly

pneuma9 · 01-02-08, 06:54

I believe fidelity is transient like relationships themselves. It will come when it's needed and disappear when it's not. Be true to yourself and you will never be unfaithful.

Hippie3 · 01-02-08, 08:19

Quote:

Originally Posted by orchid

wow... i've got a married man on my tail. its been on my mind, don't know why but when married men hit on you its kind of hot.

it's also a good way to get shot-
messing around with someone's else spouse

Leary's Ghost · 01-02-08, 10:42

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hippie3

it's also a good way to get shot-
messing around with someone's else spouse

well sure.
there's that too i guess.

vinz · 01-02-08, 10:49

correct me if im wrong but isnt it legal for a husband to kill his wife if he sees her cheating on him on the spot
well not really legal but like he wont go to jail
or something like that

Hippie3 · 01-02-08, 10:51

not in the usa,
it's still murder.
no 'honor killings' allowed here.
still happens, sure
but one goes to prison a long time.

infinity · 01-02-08, 11:52

Quote:

Originally Posted by pneuma9

I believe fidelity is transient like relationships themselves. It will come when it's needed and disappear when it's not. Be true to yourself and you will never be unfaithful.

That's a good little bit of information there.

Hippie3 · 01-02-08, 11:57

eh, sounds like self-centric crock o' BS to me.
loyalty isn't a tool to be used 'as needed'-
it's a quality of character,
you either have it or you don't.
many who don't-
try to fake it.
which is where he is with that
be true to yourself only philosophy.
short sighted.

oibchip · 01-02-08, 12:18

Just remember that if u fuck around with someone who is fuckin around on someone else to be with you..You should never have the expectation of fidelity because you will never have the right to ask that person to be faithful. Once a cheater always a cheater IMO.

In answer to your question..No I have never cheated on or cheated with(that I know of).

pareil · 01-02-08, 15:09

Quote:

Originally Posted by orchid

wow... i've got a married man on my tail. its been on my mind, don't know why but when married men hit on you its kind of hot.

I wonder if it's hot to the wife.

It's heartening that you are weighing the propriety of the affair,
some opportunists wouldn't consider whose home might get wrecked.
Being involved with him means being involved with her in one way or another.
If he is presenting himself as available, is the primary relationship already in trouble?
Have they agreed on what constitutes infidelity in their marriage?
Is association with you condoned or would you be abetting betrayal?
Are you and he clear on your intentions towards each other, and what is at stake?
Whether secretly or openly, are you all prepared to deal with emotional fallout?

My marriage has endured affairs with full disclosure.
I would not incite someone to go behind any partner's back.
People deserve to know and trust who they and their lovers become entangled with.
Strong satisfying intimacy is difficult enough to nurture with the consent of all parties,
deception is antithetical.
Accordingly, sex can be had without putting an unwitting bystander's heart or family at risk.

Make love, not lies.

orchid · 01-03-08, 22:09

a lot has happened since i first posted this a couple days ago... i've decided to not go through with it.. *sigh* its difficult because we have a history, before he got married. he did remind me though that i give incredible blowjobs. *wink* really i do. most women have no clue what they are doing, kind of like a man when they try to go down. me... i've got it down to an art. oh well. another month without getting laid...

Hippie3 · 01-03-08, 22:11

better luck next week

dizzydank · 01-03-08, 22:17

well, hmm lol i dont know what to say lol.

prism1234 · 01-03-08, 22:19

Bad Juju IMO

Think guns and body dumps... That will cool it off.

Lol

mycobri · 01-03-08, 22:27

the jesus · 01-03-08, 22:40

Quote:

Originally Posted by orchid

a lot has happened since i first posted this a couple days ago... i've decided to not go through with it.. *sigh* its difficult because we have a history, before he got married. he did remind me though that i give incredible blowjobs. *wink* really i do. most women have no clue what they are doing, kind of like a man when they try to go down. me... i've got it down to an art. oh well. another month without getting laid...

Are you kidding me, you can't get laid?!?!? How can a girl not get laid? Men will bang anything.

Shit if I was gay I could get laid on the subway.

Hippie3 · 01-03-08, 22:42

one would assume that she has certain standards that
rule out just anybody...

the jesus · 01-03-08, 22:44

Okay I'll revise my statement, if I was gay I could get laid on the subway by a well adjusted, attractive man with a good job.

Hippie3 · 01-03-08, 22:56

well i reckon that doubles your chance for a date next weekend eh .

prism1234 · 01-03-08, 22:57

HAHAHAHA!

dizzydank · 01-03-08, 23:01

lmfao

the jesus · 01-03-08, 23:03

Don't get jealous, I'll save some for you.

Bigjohnny91 · 01-03-08, 23:47

Wow, bromance at its finest...

Leary's Ghost · 01-04-08, 02:23

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hippie3

eh, sounds like self-centric crock o' BS to me.
loyalty isn't a tool to be used 'as needed'-
it's a quality of character,
you either have it or you don't.
many who don't-
try to fake it.
which is where he is with that
be true to yourself only philosophy.
short sighted.

thanks for say'n it hip

thats what i thought too but didnt want to be impolite
sounds like a hard way to do life if ya ask me

Leary's Ghost · 01-04-08, 02:30

Quote:

Originally Posted by orchid

a lot has happened since i first posted this a couple days ago... i've decided to not go through with it.. *sigh* its difficult because we have a history, before he got married. he did remind me though that i give incredible blowjobs. *wink* really i do. most women have no clue what they are doing, kind of like a man when they try to go down. me... i've got it down to an art. oh well. another month without getting laid...

aww, did you have to go there? now i am thinking of a past relationship. best BJ ever. all i wanted. she loved it. after 15 years i almost had the obsession out of my mind and you gotta bring that up.

torture.

infinity · 01-05-08, 00:02

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01-01-08, 20:49	#1 (permalink)
orchid 93/93 Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 395	infidelity have you ever had an affair or been with someone who was married?

01-01-08, 20:51	#2 (permalink)
Hippie3 Admin Join Date: Feb 2001 Posts: 36,124	not recently...unless i count my wife, she's married. __________________ GROW SUPPLIES: www.Mycrotopia.com ------------Simply The Best------------ Namaste Temet Nosce

01-01-08, 21:21	#5 (permalink)
djb Former Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 116	My mom!!!! My mom fooled around on my step dad recently we had a grow room in there attic... He found out... (About the affair) went to the cops and turned us in...Fucker got my pot taken away and my fredom for a while..All good know back at the smokin not growin, Damn it!!!!! I miss my babys had some real beutiful plants, my best was a Train Wreck...Anyways so yeah thats my story n that subject....

01-02-08, 00:57	#8 (permalink)
Leary's Ghost wuzam.o.d Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 620	i didnt get married til i was 40. before i fell in love with my wife, i didnt think i could ever be faithful to one woman. i spent alot of years chasing anything i thought i could catch and traveled the world doing it. i would have made a lousy husband, really. although it was a thrill, what i have now is way better. real love and commitment, dig? just yesterday, some hot little thing climbed onto the treadmill next to me at the gym. before i could get my 'pod buds in my ears, she strikes up a conversation with me and starts flirting. she smelled really good too. this never happens to me, so i go with it a while, really enjoying the attention. after a few minutes i put my buds in my ears, cranked the vol, and had a great run. best in a long time. point is, it never occured to me to do anything other than smile at her and appreciate her beauty (and sensuality) for what it is--a gift from God. i went home to my wife and told her i loved her. i didnt feel that i had "missed out" on anything, nor did i feel guilty. i just felt lucky to be alive and to exist in such a beautiful, miraculous universe. attention from the opposite sex feels good (or same sex i guess if that's your thing). lying, cheating and manipulation are not so good IMHO. i dont regret my past, but i am glad ive made it to where i am. why do you ask anyway? wondering if you should have a roll with the married guy? i would only sugest that if you do, do so with your eyes open. if he would lie to his wife, he will lie to you too. so dont think its something its not. thats what i think anyway. peace LG __________________ BOO!

01-01-08, 20:54	#3 (permalink)
Fresh Brewed Mycotopiate Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 719	Never come close to being unfaithful to my wife. Years and years ago I fooled around with a woman who was recently seperated.

01-01-08, 21:07	#4 (permalink)
Doctor D (Not a real doctor) Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 1,383	Heh, reminds me of a joke about pre-marital sex my friend used to tell. If a girl told him that she was waiting until marriage to have sex, he would reply "Well in that case... call me when you get married!"

01-01-08, 23:21	#6 (permalink)
orchid 93/93 Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 395	wow... i've got a married man on my tail. its been on my mind, don't know why but when married men hit on you its kind of hot.

01-02-08, 06:54	#10 (permalink)
pneuma9 Resident Deviant Join Date: Apr 1971 Posts: 211	I believe fidelity is transient like relationships themselves. It will come when it's needed and disappear when it's not. Be true to yourself and you will never be unfaithful.

01-02-08, 10:49	#13 (permalink)
vinz magician Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 755	correct me if im wrong but isnt it legal for a husband to kill his wife if he sees her cheating on him on the spot well not really legal but like he wont go to jail or something like that __________________ i know magic

01-02-08, 10:51	#14 (permalink)
Hippie3 Admin Join Date: Feb 2001 Posts: 36,124	not in the usa, it's still murder. no 'honor killings' allowed here. still happens, sure but one goes to prison a long time. __________________ GROW SUPPLIES: www.Mycrotopia.com ------------Simply The Best------------ Namaste Temet Nosce

01-02-08, 11:57	#16 (permalink)
Hippie3 Admin Join Date: Feb 2001 Posts: 36,124	eh, sounds like self-centric crock o' BS to me. loyalty isn't a tool to be used 'as needed'- it's a quality of character, you either have it or you don't. many who don't- try to fake it. which is where he is with that be true to yourself only philosophy. short sighted. __________________ GROW SUPPLIES: www.Mycrotopia.com ------------Simply The Best------------ Namaste Temet Nosce

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oibchip Space Lord Modulator Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 5,009	Just remember that if u fuck around with someone who is fuckin around on someone else to be with you..You should never have the expectation of fidelity because you will never have the right to ask that person to be faithful. Once a cheater always a cheater IMO. In answer to your question..No I have never cheated on or cheated with(that I know of). __________________ Please standby while I find a decent quote for my sig

01-03-08, 22:09	#19 (permalink)
orchid 93/93 Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 395	a lot has happened since i first posted this a couple days ago... i've decided to not go through with it.. sigh its difficult because we have a history, before he got married. he did remind me though that i give incredible blowjobs. wink really i do. most women have no clue what they are doing, kind of like a man when they try to go down. me... i've got it down to an art. oh well. another month without getting laid...

01-03-08, 22:11	#20 (permalink)
Hippie3 Admin Join Date: Feb 2001 Posts: 36,124	better luck next week __________________ GROW SUPPLIES: www.Mycrotopia.com ------------Simply The Best------------ Namaste Temet Nosce

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prism1234 Running from My Mycelium Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 2,813	Bad Juju IMO Think guns and body dumps... That will cool it off. Lol __________________ No matter how pretty the fire is, dont touch it!

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